But now I know that there are a whole bunch of people out there who like me, some of whom even love me, and if this person doesn't it does not mean that there is something wrong with me. I might not be perfect, but I'm an OK person to have as a friend.
And a lovely warm conversation with one of those dear friends, and some IM chats with several others, have made me feel that this morning's email is just not worth being upset about.
Thank you, friends.